This year I had somewhere in the region of 700 photos to sift through (still sifting). What moves me most in all of them are the smiles. Whether they're Irish, Scottish, Polish, Italian, German or even French (just kidding we forgive you for the world cup) all the eyes are smiling.
Belmar Parade Day arrived and we could not have asked for a better one. Of course as Parade Adjutant I was quite the important fellow on this day. Apparently the wife and kids didn't get that memo. The dog was only vaguely interested in why I looked like a green penguin. And so it was, with my sense of self importance corrected that I headed out to the club. Empty at 8:30am full at 9:00am we are nothing if not efficient on St. Patrick's day. Couldn't swing a shillelagh without hitting a law suit. Smiles, handshakes, a wonderful mass, Thank You Father, the ceremony at the memorial, because we never forget, we never forget. So many special moments in this day, so many.
"Hey, we need a keg of Smithwicks." Another memory, two guys in top hat and tails fetching a keg... oh yes, definitely staying earthbound today.
We departed a little on the late side for Belmar. What can I say, Maureen was determined that Mac would be the prettiest. He came close, but I don't think anyone was more proud. No one that saw Mac that day couldn't have missed the broad smile that was on his face at 8:30am and when last I saw him as I left that night it was still beaming.
Special thanks to the Belmar parade committee for the warm welcome down there. Charlie Donnelly knew we were stuck in traffic and held the fort until we landed. I think Bobby Quinn and Jimmy Byrnes could hardly wait for me to arrive at the jump off point knowing we were late. "Yeah, Dave, eh yeah, I think you have to head over to the table yeah, eh over there, yeah. Just eh, sign in." The two of them nodding as they do, "Yeah, over there they waved." Well the ladies manning the parade check-in looked a little stressed. Okay, they looked a lot stressed and I was unarmed. With top hat and green cumberbund I wasn't exactly camouflaged, so running was pointless. They were ready to hang someone, but I think they picked up on my deer in the headlights look pretty quick and took mercy. Thank you ladies. Felt like Tom Sawyer with the apple as I walked back past the two boys... better luck with next years victim.
With the sunniest day on record for many years we stepped off, hands waving, flags flying, kilts not, everything was perfect. For me it went by all too fast. Seeing the transformation as onlookers at first watched the men in black with raised eyebrows became cheering kids once again as we called out "Are there any Irish here?" and then went back and forth with each side of the street declaring that there were more Irish on their side. We danced the cha cha with the kids as parents snapped away... even Mac danced. I saw it. Started with a little shrug of the shoulders and well pretty soon he shimmied to the left, shimmied to the right, shimmied to the left, shimmied to the right. Mac's a big guy so when he shimmies people pay attention. I thought River Dance was about to get some competition but thank God for Tiny and we were off again.
As the buses arrived back at the club the festivities got into high gear on Oak Street. Irish rock, trad and folk music was the order of the day in the bar and the World Famous McCarthy Brothers got the crowd going in the FSOS Hall. Friends from far and near were there. We celebrated into night, and as the music played, friends laughed and friends hugged. They moved from group to group. More like a family reunion where everybody knows everybody. And just as with family we can't come straight out and say, "Wow, great to see ye". As a race we're cursed with the inability to express outright affection without a little mischief thrown in for good measure. "Haven't seen you since last year." "And it'll be a year before ye see me again... please God", "Will ye have a beer?" more laughter and smiles, always the smiles. Well, after all, it was St. Patrick's Day at the Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh, so we had plenty to smile about.
More Photos will be available in the gallery in the coming days.
Very special thanks to Alan Purcell for all the photography.